Sunday, July 10, 2005

Why do we keep coming back?

"So you remember the drill, not a word to your parents, friends or Rabbis, right" he said, zipping up his pants.
"Hey, don't worry, I may be just 18 but I'm not dumb. We've lasted this far, haven't we?" she replied while combing out her hair. "Speaking of which, when are you planning on telling your wife about all this?"
"I'll do it, I'll do it, just give me time, it's not a simple thing you know, you gotta let me decide when the moment is right." He put on his jacket and picked up his car keys.
"Last time you promised to do it and you didn't call me for weeks" she cried to his back.
His parting remarks helped nobody. "Yeah, I'm really sorry baby, you know I love you, you are the only one for me, but things are really tough right now with the new house and the baby on the way. I'll call ya, we'll meet up again soon. And I'll do it, I swear."

As they left the hotel and went their seperate ways, they both asked themselves "Why do we keep coming back"?

TRK

39 Comments:

At 7/10/2005 3:48 PM, Blogger Karl said...

Where was THAT from?

 
At 7/10/2005 3:52 PM, Blogger ClooJew said...

Um, so, lulei demistafina, are you trying to emulate brianna?

 
At 7/10/2005 8:07 PM, Blogger BasTorah said...

We keep coming back for more. We like it. We want it. We like the thrill of it of doing something wrong, to do something illegal.
She does it because she is getting attention from someone. She is getting what she is starving for.
He too because...he is getting the attention that he too is starving for. They both have needs and wants and this is a way to do it untill
the guilt kicks in and they stop.

 
At 7/10/2005 9:15 PM, Blogger brianna said...

Me, CJ?

 
At 7/11/2005 4:14 AM, Blogger Olah Chadasha said...

I'd have to agree with bastorah. Except for one thing. I don't think even guilt makes them stop. I think by that point, only getting caught will have an effect, and, even then, it still might not make them stop.
-OC

 
At 7/11/2005 10:54 AM, Anonymous Karl said...

It is just pure, unadulterated, uncontroled desires, with no thought as to what is being done, only the immediate short term benefits. (If there is thought, its only to justify the ends.) Often an escape from reality, living out ones desires without the foresight to the consequences.

 
At 7/11/2005 11:28 AM, Blogger Chai18 said...

for whatever its worth, very well written

 
At 7/11/2005 7:14 PM, Blogger ClooJew said...

Yes you, silly!

For the girl, it could be attention or lust or both.

For the guy, it is, lulei demistafina, 100% tayva.

OK. Maybe only 99% with a smidgen of needed affection. But that's it!

 
At 7/11/2005 7:54 PM, Blogger Shopaholic said...

Mitzvah G'orres Mitzvah....

AVERAH G'ORRES AVERAH!

 
At 7/12/2005 10:04 AM, Blogger Semgirl said...

I guess because it feels SOOOOOOO GOOOD!!!

But TRK, you are a young single guy, why are you blogging about a married couple having an affair out of curiosity?

 
At 7/12/2005 10:05 AM, Blogger Jameel @ The Muqata said...

Reminds me of the way the Israeli left keeps running after the Palestinians to give them guns.

Why do we keep coming back, and pathetically, give them more and more and more guns.

I assume its 99% Tayva and 1% Avoda Zara.

Aveira Gorreret Aveira.

 
At 7/12/2005 6:02 PM, Blogger ClooJew said...

I think TRK is secretly married.

 
At 7/12/2005 6:09 PM, Blogger Karl said...

I think he has a woman in each port!

 
At 7/12/2005 6:35 PM, Blogger Margaritagirrl said...

Whew......is it hot in here or is it me??
Very steamy...and very good....and unfortunately, probably very true, all too often.
Why do people keep coming back? With the tremendous risk they're taking? If they get caught, (and many times they do) their marriage and family home life is over. Do they really love the partner in the extramarital relationship?? Or is it only the thrill...being in love with the idea of being in love..feeling so good again. After all, once you're married for a long time, and daily routines set in, romance is usually put on the back burner. And here - once again you feel like a teenager.
Each time you come home, undetected, you breathe a sigh of relief...but how long can it last...and why do we keep coming back?

 
At 7/12/2005 10:43 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Great Post!

 
At 7/13/2005 5:54 AM, Anonymous zsj said...

So TRK- why is it that you keep going back to complicated relationships with unavailable or innappropriate people?

That would be the diagnosis of your friendly local psychologist on reading this post.

 
At 7/13/2005 2:30 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

zsj - care to elaborate...

 
At 7/14/2005 6:47 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

TRK - why do you think they keep getting together? and why did you post this story? the suspense is killing me.

 
At 7/14/2005 4:48 PM, Blogger Queenie said...

Does that really happen?

 
At 7/15/2005 12:46 PM, Blogger Shopaholic said...

Hey!
Where you hiding? I miss your posts....

 
At 7/16/2005 9:42 PM, Blogger B2 said...

Who's coming here to ask about Jewish penis size? (We're all huge, by the way.)

 
At 7/16/2005 10:39 PM, Blogger fog said...

i'm getting worried...did TRK run away and disappear?

 
At 7/17/2005 8:21 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

b2 and anon-

Since he's not here to mointor his post- I will-

NO MORE TALK ABOUT PENIS SIZES! (I mean how old are you?1?)
TRK blogs are not like that and I know he'd not want this discussion on his comment board so drop it...

 
At 7/17/2005 11:23 AM, Blogger Karl said...

So lets get back to conspiracy theorys as to TRK's whereabouts. Its been a week now with no sightings. Hope its nothing serious.

 
At 7/18/2005 8:37 AM, Blogger Olah Chadasha said...

I think he's been abducted by aliens. He's being probed for information as we speak, and we're sitting here doing nothing. Ah well... We come in peace, TRK! Where are you?
-OC

 
At 7/18/2005 12:30 PM, Blogger HaJew said...

I think the point here was to write well. Why's everyone trying to answer The Question?

For the answer to anonymous' question - the Hip Hop Hoodios have a song that addresses the issue.

 
At 7/19/2005 5:22 AM, Anonymous zsj said...

I think he might be worried that he's finally blown his cover showing himself to be a "Kid" who is titillated by such scenarios.

 
At 7/19/2005 9:26 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

zsj, grow up.

I'm fine everyone, thanks for your concern.

TRK

 
At 7/21/2005 11:17 AM, Blogger Elster said...

Why? Why is easy. Mick Jagger once said "You can't always get what you want."

Taking it a step further though, you always want what you can't have.

The married man wants the young, unattached girl. Part teyvah, part a desire for "variety", part stupidity. Always thinking what you don't have is better than what you do.

The girl? Perhaps in her misguided way she sees stability in a man who can get married, buy a house and have kids. We always want what we don't have.

Alas for both of these poor souls.

 
At 7/21/2005 10:56 PM, Blogger brianna said...

Or maybe she gets off on the whole thing? This man shows her a good time. Her life is dreary except for this guy, who takes her out, tells her he loves her and shows her a good time. She loves that he can get sex elsewhere but craves it with her. She loves that she could ruin his life with a few well places words with the right people. It's power in a world where frum teenage girls have very little. And it's a chance to be bad. To break free but not have to face the real consequences. It's the ultimate secret life. It's attention as much as the orgasms. Or perhaps she's the needy type who just wants the faked love and hugs. Whatever.

 
At 7/22/2005 6:45 AM, Blogger Elster said...

Maybe Brianna. To be honest, your answer sounds as plausible as any.

 
At 7/23/2005 8:34 PM, Blogger LostSpirit said...

Why it happens is not so much the question, as it happens by us in the same way it happens the world over, I guess just that in our world there is the added bounes that Mr zip is still churning out babies by the dozen at home. But why are the ones who are so to say the leaders of the community acting like ostriches is the real question, why are so many of the girls on the receiving end so naïve about what is really going on.

 
At 7/24/2005 7:41 AM, Blogger Yankel Doodle said...

Does she really believe he"ll ever tell his wife?

 
At 7/24/2005 8:35 PM, Blogger fog said...

>Does she really believe he"ll >ever tell his wife?

good question. oh, the lies we'll tell ourselves to make doing the stupidest things seem logical or good.

 
At 7/24/2005 8:35 PM, Blogger fog said...

>Does she really believe he"ll >ever tell his wife?

good question. oh, the lies we'll tell ourselves to make doing the stupidest things seem logical or good.

 
At 7/25/2005 5:19 AM, Blogger Karl said...

TRK is good at coming up with logical reasons to everything!
I think its time for a new post though. Come on TRK, not all of us are on vacation, I'm sure you can find a net-cafe near your log cabin. We need something new to read!

 
At 7/25/2005 9:15 AM, Blogger bleemy's blemishes said...

VERY intersting!!!

BB

 
At 7/27/2005 1:07 AM, Blogger The Rabbi's Kid said...

wanted to see how many of us can sympathize with the two protagonists

TRK

 
At 8/02/2005 5:48 PM, Blogger Jew Speak said...

TRK, did you make that up yourself? I have always wondered about authors like Stephen King. Where did he get those crazy ideas from? It is funny to think that all of it is in his head :)

 

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