Marvellous moshol
"Once upon a time, there was a bird. He was adorned with two perfect wings and with glossy, colourful, marvellous feathers. In short, he was a creature made to fly about freely in the sky, bringing joy to everyone who saw him.
One day, a woman saw this bird and fell in love with him. She watched his flight, her mouth wide in amazement, her heart pounding, her eyes shining with excitement. She invited the bird to fly with her, and the two travelled across the sky in perfect harmony. She admired and venerated and celebrated that bird.
But then she thought: He might want to visit far-off mountains! And she was afraid, afraid that she would never feel the same way about any other bird. And she felt envy, envy for the bird's ability to fly.
And she felt alone.
And she thought: "I'm going to set a trap. The next time the bird appears, he will never leave again."
The bird, who was also in love, returned the following day, fell into the trap and was put in a cage.
She looked at the bird every day. There he was, the object of her passion, and she showed him to her friends, who said: "Now you have everything you could possibly want." However, a strange transformation began to take place: now that she had the bird and no longer needed to woo him, she began to lose interest. The bird, unable to fly and express the true meaning of his life, began to waste away and his feathers to lose their gloss; he grew ugly; and the woman no longer paid him any attention, except by feeding him and cleaning out his cage.
One day, the bird died. The woman felt terribly sad and spent all her time thinking about him. But she did not remember the cage, she thought only of the day when she had seen him for the first time, flying contentedly amongst the clouds.
If she had looked more deeply into herself, she would have realised that what thrilled her about the bird was his freedom, the energy of his wings in motion, not his physical body.
Without the bird, her life too lost all meaning, and Death came knocking at her door. "Why have you come? she asked Death. "So that you can fly once more with him across the sky." Death replied. "If you had allowed him to come and go, you would have loved and admired him even more; alas, you now need me in order to find him again"."
(thanks to Paulo Coelho)
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The book itself is highly erotic, but there is one other gem I'd like to quote:
"Money! A special piece of paper, decorated in sombre colours, which everyone agreed was worth something, until you took a pile of paper to the bank and asked "Could I buy back a few hours of my life?" "No madam, we don't sell, we only buy"."
we all might be
This makes me sad. I wonder who I feel like more, the bird or the bird.
Um, a moshol to marriage is it???
Jeez Cloo: Morbid much are we?
And yes, I know you are joking.
I think Hillel wrote a less poetic version of that story when he wrote about the "gilgolet" in the Pirkei Avot...
so perhaps if he had done a better job of expressing his feelings for her and made her feel more secure, she wouldn't have needed to lock him in a cage...
I agree with MH. She wouldn't have felt the need to trap him if she would have known that he would keep coming back...
If only love wasn't made up of complex games, that no one really wants to play... If only we weren't so afraid to express our feelings openly... If only we didn't wait until it was too late...
hi chai. seems we always agree :)
Great minds think alike...
(and I'll save the next poster from posting the inevitable 'fools never differ'...)
hadn't thought of paulo coehlo in years... thanks... (and thanks, i decided after some thinking time that i was, in fact, back... )
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