On women, a clarification
I get the impression that my previous post was misunderstood by my female readership. Like all the great philosphers, thinkers and poets throughout history, my words are being debated in bars and batey midrash up and down the country. Or maybe not.
What I do mean is that most people of the female persuasion (I love persuading people they are female!) want a man with some courage, cahunas, bravado, spiwit. Stwike him thentuwian, stwike him wufly and fwow him to the floow.
They like a guy who will go up to them and talk to them, ask them for their number, take an interest in them. They are far more likely to want that guy rather than the shy retiring one who sits in the corner all night saying nothing. Be the big bear with the claws.
Too many guys waste too many opportunities to meet good girls because they sit around on their safe, cowardly ass. That's my point. That's the way they are programmed. And once you've got their number and asked them out - compliment them. They deserve it. Be interested in what they have to say. That's what they are looking for.
Thanks for listening
TRK
posted by TRK @ 9:00 PM
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Tom Petty and the Heartbreakers,
Well, it was nearly all summer we sat on your roof
Yeah, we smoked cigarettes and we stared at the moon
And i'd show you stars you never could see
Baby, it couldn't have been that easy to forget about me
Baby, time meant n othing, anything seemed real
Yeah, you could kiss like fire and you made me feel
Like every word you said was meant to be
No, it couldn't have been that easy to forget about me
Baby, even the losers get lucky sometimes
Even the lo sers keep a little bit of pride
They get lucky sometimes
Two cars parked on the overpass,
Rocks hit the water like broken glass
I should have known right then it was too good to last
God, it's such a drag when you're livin' in the past
Baby, even the losers get lucky sometimes
Even the losers keep a little bit of pride
They get lucky sometimes
Baby, even the losers get lucky sometimes
Even the losers keep a little bit of pride
Yeah, they get lucky sometimes
Baby, even the losers get lucky sometimes
Even the losers get lucky sometimes
Even the losers get lucky sometimes
Even the losers get lucky sometimes
Even the losers get lucky sometimes
Tis a pleasure EC, glad I could help, no hard feelings.
Thanks BB
dude, i wholeheartedly agree. i ask guys out. why cant s/o ask me my name?
You go for it !!! TRK
Those metaphors sure can be tricky :)
Are you living in the frum world?
Sure, TRK... suuuuuure....
FG,
Suuuure what?
David, I understand things are different in the frum world, but many of the same principles apply.
Masmida, I am very serious.
SG, I have gone for it/am going for it.
Lost, keep it up, one guy will appreciate you for who you are.
Is that all you were saying? Really? Yes, we like our guys aggressive and well manly. We like guys who take the initiative. But we also like respect. Those of us with self esteem do, anyway.
Cahunas!
You have made this *much* too easy for me.
dh,
care to elaborate by e-mail what have I made too easy? I ain't following you!
well said Brianna
Brina,
One who gives respect is respected. (I wish I could claim credit for that one but it is Pirkei Avos)
"One who gives respect is respected." I beg to disagree. You can kiss a person's toes till you're blue in the face but that won't make them respect you. In fact it'll almost certainly have the opposite effect. The way to command respect is to a) be confidant and b)deserve it or make people think you do!
hi
EC - what's not to understand? He said that girls like guys who have the guts to come up to them, talk to them, ask them out, compliment them, show their interest....not the guys who sit on the sidelines and are afraid to make a move.
Brianna,
"kissing someone's toes" is not respect, that is not even self respect... if that's what you want someone to kiss your toes get a slave because no man (unless it is his fetish) will kiss your toes. Kavod ben adam retzono.. Respect is respecitng the other person's wishes.
ex: he hates kissing toes, so you don't make him.
No offence, but that was one heck of a terrible analogy to get that out.
But it was a good point.
TRK - how about a post for the ladies? why don't you give us some tips on how to deal with the guys?
It's fascinating to see guys try to give out their wisdom on the "gentle sex."
I would expound, but I'm way too annoyed.
BTW, EC-ditto
personnaly, this is all crap.
guys go around trying to figure out what girls want and girls are annoyed because they always get it wrong. Then girls try to figure out what guys want and the guys get annoyed because we always get it wrong.
Stop trying to figure out what goes through our minds because you never will! Just figure out what you want, verbalize it, and then we have something to work with!
hey lost.
you ask guys out?
who have you asked out recently?
what's your name?
WOW...A guy who actually gets it.
The guy should pursue the gals... if the gals pursue the guys, thats cool, but i think they only come to that because the guys dont get off their butts and say hey, wats up..wats your name? its come to a point that when a guy may be audacious enough to make a move, the girls are not receptive to it. They think it's strange..what kind of culture are we breeding?!! this is not healthy. We all have inclinations towards the opposite sex and everyone is frustrated and repressed. AHHHH!!!
It's ridiculous.
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